To many, feminine power–the art of surrender, may appear to be a paradox. I have learned that there is often truth in paradox. When one surrenders from a place of love, it is an act of great power. Even though men such as Jesus, Moses, and Gandhi, have surrendered to the will of God, the act of surrender in both men and women comes from the inner feminine aspect. What is the power of surrender? Why is it important? What is necessary to accomplish it ? How is the sexual arena especially important? Continue reading →

To be whole and balanced is to develop the integrity of every aspect of self. Within the context of the soul’s development, I believe it means being conscious of and integrating all parts or sub-personalities within us, i.e. the lover, caretaker, tyrant, teacher, mother, father, manipulator, critic, etc. Continue reading →

Doesn’t Stress Success seem like an oxymoron to you? It sure did to me, at first!

Keeping up with modern life is often complicated by the very technological advances and other conveniences that are meant to streamline our day, often creating even more havoc than we had before. We have the pressure of a tumultuous economy, and with the stock market and housing prices dropping, the stress factor has been increasing for many. It seems like stress has become a way of life. It is true that in small doses stress can motivate you and help you perform under pressure such as preparing for a presentation or studying for exams, however on a long-term basis, it creates a multitude of problems. Continue reading →

“A sexual vampire. You’re dating a sexual vampire. He lives off women’s sexual energy to feed him.” Although I thought I should stop seeing this man, I had no intention of doing this. Instead, I did the only other thing I could. I studied the pattern and tracked the wound, the events in relationship and the codependency that it created. My teacher continued, “Notice his feet and hands are often cold and his body is thin and emaciated looking.” I continued observing every movement and change that occurred to me and in the relationship. Continue reading →

What can therapy do for me? Knowing when to seek therapy or get some counseling is vital. There are many reasons one seeks therapy. Crisis is the most common reason people go to a therapist. Crisis could be any drastic event that suddenly effects us. This could include, but is not limited to: a severe illness, loss of a job, parent or child becomes seriously ill, death of a family member, financial disaster, a major flood, earthquake or fire, etc. Continue reading →

LISTEN

Listen, my child.
Listen, with your heart
And you shall hear their feelings
And the words they never dared to speak. Continue reading →

Are you, or anyone you know, struggling with feelings of overwhelm and anxiety because of money? it’s a safe bet the answer is, “Yes!” Normally I say finances and abundance issues are connected to self-esteem but right now there is such a major economic shift going on and for many people money stress is connected to having difficulty with the changing financial structure. People are feeling out-of-control and fearful. Continue reading →